themoonluvr:

i know how hard it is to understand this but you’re not your parents. you’re not living for your parents either, you’re living for you. you weren’t created to please them, you actually owe them nothing. you didn’t ask to be born. so if they hit you with values and opinions you willingly won’t take on, draw the line. you are separate from your parents. you get to have your own views and way of life. if you don’t want to marry, don’t. if you want to adopt, adopt. if you want to be together with someone that isn’t of the opposite gender, date them. do not, and i repeat, DO NOT put your parents or caregivers before your own needs AND WANTS. don’t be miserable just because you made decisions based on what your parents expected. this is not how to be happy and fulfilled. have your own opinions. don’t put your parents on a pedestal. they are just humans you interact with. have compassion but see yourself separately from them. because you are.

sly-soull:

Lets talk about how hard it is to open up to someone about being sad for no reason. Lets talk about how hard it is to explain to your friends and family that you have this heavy feeling in your chest for no reason. Lets talk about how hard it is to understand why you’re having a panic attack while just taking a walk back home. Lets talk about how hard it is to understand your own self and how scary it is to feel like the whole world is falling on your shoulders and you have no idea why .

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eemaanuelee:

I’m very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very tired.

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